LaVender Williams’ calling is unmasking and sharing the reality of being a wife and mother. She created her online resource for women,, to allow others to look into her life and learn from it, as she candidly shares her motherhood journey through her blog and weekly meditations. Also a freelance writer and author, her two books, We Snap in Silence and Trash Thoughts (both focused on personal growth), are available through LaVender resides in Florida with her husband, Kevin, and their younger son, Jaylan. Their older son, Javan, is in college.